Star’s Beliefs
Your belief becomes your reality! The way you think about yourself turns into your reality. If you draw inaccurate conclusions about who you are and what you’re capable of doing, you’ll limit your potential.
Some of them are right but some of them are very wrong. And the wrong once’s are cutting our possibilities and getting us to drive ourselves to the corner.
Most people have limiting beliefs, and so their life is limited.
They believe life is HARD, they believe life is a challenge, full of sadness and misery. They believe at some level, conscious or subconsciously, their best days are behind them.
They believe fitting in, and wearing masks will get them a better or easier life, then being their true self and following their true passions. Their happiness is dependent on what happens… they are not in control of life, life is in control of them.
What about me - I am trying to keep the most positive things with me and through away all the negative beliefs from my head.
Just try to leave the most positive beliefs in your head.
It wasn’t easy and I am still working hard with myself but I BELIEVE that I am doing my best!
Let’s take a look to the wrong beliefs:
Examples:
“I’m just not good enough to advance in my career.” That assumption leads you to feel discouraged and causes you to put in less effort.
“I’m really socially awkward.” So when that individual goes to a social gathering, he stays to in the corner by himself.
“I can’t learn different languages! I am not talented.” - good reason to stay inactive and good excuse for lazy people.
“There’s no good bosses in this world!” - what about to become your own boss?
“You can take the girl out of the village, but you sure can’t take the village out of the girl” - this is what people from big cities just think about the others who’s coming from different places.
“Don’t celebrate your success!” - who’s success you will be celebrate then?...or do you have to celebrate your faults?
Consider for a minute that it might not be your lack of talent or lack of skills that are holding you back. Instead, it might be your beliefs that keep you from performing at your peak.
Under the mask and fair of fault people are using this as an excuse and just saying - I don’t deserve!
And this is a huge mistake and as long you believe in that, you will hardly become a star!
So what are the right beliefs, you will ask?
They are simple and positive and will motivate you to become a real star!
Creating a more positive outlook can lead to better outcomes. That’s not to say positive thoughts have magical powers. But optimistic thoughts lead to productive behavior, which increases your chances of a successful outcome.
Remind yourself that you don’t have to allow those beliefs to restrict your potential. Just because you think something, doesn’t make it true.
The good news is, you can change how you think.
Most people have limiting beliefs, and so their life is limited.
They believe life is HARD, they believe life is a challenge, full of sadness and misery. They believe at some level, conscious or subconsciously, their best days are behind them.
They believe fitting in, and wearing masks will get them a better or easier life, then being their true self and following their true passions. Their happiness is dependent on what happens… they are not in control of life, life is in control of them.
What about me - I am trying to keep the most positive things with me and through away all the negative beliefs from my head.
Just try to leave the most positive beliefs in your head.
It wasn’t easy and I am still working hard with myself but I BELIEVE that I am doing my best!
Let’s take a look to the wrong beliefs:
Examples:
“I’m just not good enough to advance in my career.” That assumption leads you to feel discouraged and causes you to put in less effort.
“I’m really socially awkward.” So when that individual goes to a social gathering, he stays to in the corner by himself.
“I can’t learn different languages! I am not talented.” - good reason to stay inactive and good excuse for lazy people.
“There’s no good bosses in this world!” - what about to become your own boss?
“You can take the girl out of the village, but you sure can’t take the village out of the girl” - this is what people from big cities just think about the others who’s coming from different places.
“Don’t celebrate your success!” - who’s success you will be celebrate then?...or do you have to celebrate your faults?
Consider for a minute that it might not be your lack of talent or lack of skills that are holding you back. Instead, it might be your beliefs that keep you from performing at your peak.
Under the mask and fair of fault people are using this as an excuse and just saying - I don’t deserve!
And this is a huge mistake and as long you believe in that, you will hardly become a star!
So what are the right beliefs, you will ask?
They are simple and positive and will motivate you to become a real star!
Creating a more positive outlook can lead to better outcomes. That’s not to say positive thoughts have magical powers. But optimistic thoughts lead to productive behavior, which increases your chances of a successful outcome.
Remind yourself that you don’t have to allow those beliefs to restrict your potential. Just because you think something, doesn’t make it true.
The good news is, you can change how you think.
Examples:
“I Have So Much To Be Thankful For!” -
This is pretty easy for anyone to understand. HAPPY people are happy because they appreciate more than unhappy people.
“Being Myself Attracts The Right People.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson once said,
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
You’ll never attract the right people by being someone YOU ARE NOT. Be yourself, and the right people for YOU will show up. The right people will LOVE the REAL YOU.
“I Am Capable Of Anything”
Successful people, know with absolutely certainty, anything they BELIEVE can be their reality. Imagine what you could create in your life with the belief “I AM CAPABLE OF ANYTHING”
That dream you have – PLAN FOR IT, WORK FOR IT, and GO GET IT! That change you’ve been putting off: BELIEVE YOU CAN DO IT and GO FOT IT!
“Kindness Always Wins!”
Some people believe kindness is a weakness. They believe kind people get walked over. In life, YES, some people will do you wrong, but that doesn’t mean you throw everyone into the same basket.
You be kind, because that’s who you are, not because you want something out of it, like a transaction.
Do good by others. Treat others how you want to be treated. Not because you want something from them, but because you know the world is a little better every-time someone like you does good, no matter how small.
“I Have So Much To Offer.”
You can LEARN from your past pain. You can USE it. BELIEVE it was sent to make you stronger, better, more compassionate, BELIEVE there was a reason for it.
“My Best Is Yet To Come”
What would you attempt, what could you achieve if you KNEW your best was yet to come? Well guess what? YOUR BEST IS YET TO COME.
Look yourself in the mirror every morning and tell yourself “MY BEST IS YET TO COME”
“MY BEST IS YET TO COME” Believe it. LIVE that belief. Create something, many things in your life that are the BEST results you’ve ever achieved in that area.
“I Have So Much To Be Thankful For!” -
This is pretty easy for anyone to understand. HAPPY people are happy because they appreciate more than unhappy people.
“Being Myself Attracts The Right People.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson once said,
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
You’ll never attract the right people by being someone YOU ARE NOT. Be yourself, and the right people for YOU will show up. The right people will LOVE the REAL YOU.
“I Am Capable Of Anything”
Successful people, know with absolutely certainty, anything they BELIEVE can be their reality. Imagine what you could create in your life with the belief “I AM CAPABLE OF ANYTHING”
That dream you have – PLAN FOR IT, WORK FOR IT, and GO GET IT! That change you’ve been putting off: BELIEVE YOU CAN DO IT and GO FOT IT!
“Kindness Always Wins!”
Some people believe kindness is a weakness. They believe kind people get walked over. In life, YES, some people will do you wrong, but that doesn’t mean you throw everyone into the same basket.
You be kind, because that’s who you are, not because you want something out of it, like a transaction.
Do good by others. Treat others how you want to be treated. Not because you want something from them, but because you know the world is a little better every-time someone like you does good, no matter how small.
“I Have So Much To Offer.”
You can LEARN from your past pain. You can USE it. BELIEVE it was sent to make you stronger, better, more compassionate, BELIEVE there was a reason for it.
“My Best Is Yet To Come”
What would you attempt, what could you achieve if you KNEW your best was yet to come? Well guess what? YOUR BEST IS YET TO COME.
Look yourself in the mirror every morning and tell yourself “MY BEST IS YET TO COME”
“MY BEST IS YET TO COME” Believe it. LIVE that belief. Create something, many things in your life that are the BEST results you’ve ever achieved in that area.
Beliefs that are holding you back as a songwriter.
Now let’s look at some common limiting beliefs songwriters have, and how to dispel them.
Limiting Belief: I can’t make it in the music business.
Now more than ever, independent musicians are creating opportunities for their own success. Tools like social media and home recording studios have made it possible for someone to create and distribute their own music with relative ease. It’s a better time than ever to be approaching music on your own. It happens constantly that independent musicians make a living without having an “in” in the industry.
Limiting Belief: I’m too old to start making money with my music.
People start making money with their music at all different ages. Again, it happens all the time. Susan Boyle was almost fifty when she started getting millions of hits on her YouTube videos. What if she would have told herself she was too old to try? Do record labels typically look for people in their teens or early twenties to be the face of pop music? Sure, but becoming a pop star in that sense is not the only road to the music business. Like I said, if you make it as an independent songwriter, you won’t be relying on a label anyway. Get great at what you do, so you can become irresistible to who you’re trying to attract.
Limiting Belief: I’m too young to be a songwriter.
I’ll hear kids say things like “I’m trying to be a songwriter.” If you’ve written a song, you are a songwriter. Period. Eliminate the word “trying” from your vocabulary, and simply do. If you think you’re too young to make money with your music, there are plenty of precedents to shatter that myth. If you’re still concerned about being too young, just wait a while and it’ll go away.
Limiting Belief: I can’t build a fan base. No one wants to hear my music.
Things like email lists and social media sites make it easier than ever to build a fan base and maintain a relationship with your fans. Indie artists do it all the time. Why would you be different? And if you’re concerned that your songs aren’t good enough, an education and more practice with songwriting will help you with that. That’s why you’re reading this article, so you’re already on the right track. You just have to be persistent and keep doing it.
Now it’s your turn. Make a list of your own personal limiting beliefs and then come up with reasons they’re not true. Find examples of when they haven’t been true. There will be plenty. It’ll help you realize you’re capable of so much more than you thought. The truth is, whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re probably right. So start realizing you can. We’re only bound by the shackles we put on ourselves. It’s up to us to remove them.
Nothing happens unless you start making it happen.
So go do it!
To be continued…
Limiting Belief: I can’t make it in the music business.
Now more than ever, independent musicians are creating opportunities for their own success. Tools like social media and home recording studios have made it possible for someone to create and distribute their own music with relative ease. It’s a better time than ever to be approaching music on your own. It happens constantly that independent musicians make a living without having an “in” in the industry.
Limiting Belief: I’m too old to start making money with my music.
People start making money with their music at all different ages. Again, it happens all the time. Susan Boyle was almost fifty when she started getting millions of hits on her YouTube videos. What if she would have told herself she was too old to try? Do record labels typically look for people in their teens or early twenties to be the face of pop music? Sure, but becoming a pop star in that sense is not the only road to the music business. Like I said, if you make it as an independent songwriter, you won’t be relying on a label anyway. Get great at what you do, so you can become irresistible to who you’re trying to attract.
Limiting Belief: I’m too young to be a songwriter.
I’ll hear kids say things like “I’m trying to be a songwriter.” If you’ve written a song, you are a songwriter. Period. Eliminate the word “trying” from your vocabulary, and simply do. If you think you’re too young to make money with your music, there are plenty of precedents to shatter that myth. If you’re still concerned about being too young, just wait a while and it’ll go away.
Limiting Belief: I can’t build a fan base. No one wants to hear my music.
Things like email lists and social media sites make it easier than ever to build a fan base and maintain a relationship with your fans. Indie artists do it all the time. Why would you be different? And if you’re concerned that your songs aren’t good enough, an education and more practice with songwriting will help you with that. That’s why you’re reading this article, so you’re already on the right track. You just have to be persistent and keep doing it.
Now it’s your turn. Make a list of your own personal limiting beliefs and then come up with reasons they’re not true. Find examples of when they haven’t been true. There will be plenty. It’ll help you realize you’re capable of so much more than you thought. The truth is, whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re probably right. So start realizing you can. We’re only bound by the shackles we put on ourselves. It’s up to us to remove them.
Nothing happens unless you start making it happen.
So go do it!
To be continued…
Emine SARI
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